Why shy guys ignore you

Will that get you a date with her, No! But it will get you a date with a woman that has the same feeling towards you, If she doesn't see that you take a sexual interest in her then your just another "nice guy" she would have liked to date, but you never gave her any clue that you saw her in that way.

Second and more importantly is the fact that all women see men as dogs to one degree or another and if your not being a dog your not sending out sexual clues. Really women are not as offended as one might think about men and their dog behavior. In fact it's when men are not being dogs that sends them the signal of boring.

So, see its far more hurtful to your dating potential, by not being a dog and thus lotting you into the "Nice Guy zone".

Now I'm not saying a man should behave as a jerk towards women but if your not being a dog your not going to register on her radar as dating material. It's okay to be a little bad, your still the nice guy that women want but a nice guy doesn't really garner attraction. Always remember before any date can happen there must be attraction and the two are as opposite in rules as quantum phyiscs and relativity.

Be sweet and nice on the date but to get the date you have to be a little outspoken, opinionated, stuborn, and uncompromising Be the Dog. If you keep in mind your not really asking for a date therfore your not going to get rejected. Your just saying aloud what others dare not speak of and if she gasp your on the right track. Some of the things posted by the orginal poster are close but I really don't think being shy means no confidence.

I've know some fairly shy guys that could ride a bull , and wrestle an alligator but couldn't be dragged accross a floor to ask a girl out. So, Confidence isn't the right word to use for confidence must have bravery and I have no question these shy guys are brave. They are just shy when it comes to asking a girl out.

You never here two women say O' I think he's just a low confidence guy they say O' I think he's just shy. As I said at the beginging there is no one more so shy than myself on this planet.

I'm also a really nice and decent person deep down inside. But I'm aware that neither of these traits bleed attraction. So, I now say what's on my mind and I make no apologies in letting a woman know I find her sexy. It's not rude it's not disrespectful and she wants to know a man sees her in that light.

If she feels you desire her AND she is the one that desires you.. Very well put Me lady. Maybe if these shy men heard a few more women speak up about how they want to be told they are found to be interesting and beautiful. Then maybe these shy guys would wake up to the fact that it's okay to tell a women these things. The root of the problem for shy guys is the media and television try to protray it as women find it offensive if a guy whistles at a woman. Now you tell me what woman deep down would be offened if she walked past a group of guys and they all stopped what they was doing to watch her pass?

A woman wants to know she still has what it takes to get looks and that's the truth. Whether they want to openly admit it or not. It makes sense because it is the reality. Believe you me I couldn't tell you the number of stories I've been told or heard of women all wanting nice men. Yet why is it they always go after the direct opposite? Attraction isn't dating or a realtionship, its all about lighting a fire. This is why the rules are so totally different between the two, they are like oil and water they just don't mix.

Now, if your a decent guy and you can master this art of being the opposite of what you are when first meeting, then your going to be a woman's dream guy come true.

All you have to do is remind yourself ever time an instance presents itself. It's easier than you think and if you get shot down no big deal.

Because attraction is more about getting as many bullets in your plane as possible. It's dating where you don't want to get shot down.

So, don't think the two are linked they are not. If she's agreed to go out on a date she's already found something about you that's interesting. That's when and where you show the manners your mother taught you. But before there can be a date one must be attractive and that doesn't mean it's based on looks. I've seen plenty of not so good looking guys with some great looking women.

Why is that? Sometimes it's money but the majority of the time the guy has an appeal to him, be it charm or he's just great with humor.

By fallininlove Started Wednesday at PM. By Jadesamson Started November 5. Your Wingmam posted a blog entry in Youtube , November 3. Brad Browning posted a blog entry in Youtube , November 3. Psych2Go posted a blog entry in Youtube , November 3. They avoid you because they think that you're just trying to embarrass them. The reason that he might be avoiding looking at you might be because he is nervous. The reason that he is nervous could be because he is attracted to you. If that is why he's nervous then it would be likely that he would show signs of attraction in his body language when around you.

Instead of paying attention to your crush, purposely ignore him. You see, people hate to be ignored so when they get ignored, they tend to pay attention to whoever that is ignoring them and will try to get their attention. When a guy is leading you on, he gives you assurance that he you'll be together but at the same time, he makes you feel insecure about the connection you have.

He pushes you away because he wants space and wants to explore his options elsewhere. He also pulls you closer than he's let anyone before. Unfortunately there may never be a clear sign, and you might have to make the first move. A guy who is shy feels nervous and anxious in new and unfamiliar situations and with people he doesn't know, according to the Helpguide article, "Shyness. For example, he might not intentionally ignore you outside of class, but when you pass him in the hall his heart flutters and his hands shake -- so he can't work up the nerve to say hello.

In addition to having physical symptoms of being nervous, he may become tongue tied in your presence. People who are shy worry about mistakes they have made in the past and things they might do wrong in the future. He might think of things to say to you, but when the opportunity comes, he talks himself out of taking a chance for fear that you will judge him negatively.

If you spend enough time around him, he might eventually reveal his true feelings. Be prepared for a waterfall of emotions if this happens. Shy people sometimes move too quickly after a period of holding back -- because of their lack of "social know-how," asserts psychology professor Bernardo Carducci in the "Psychology Today" article, "Shyness: The New Solution.

Sometimes things are just what they seem -- and it is possible a shy boy is ignoring you simply because people make him nervous in general, as discussed by Carducci in the Shyness Research Institute article, "Are There Different Types of Shyness?